This is an interesting video I saw on flickspire.
Take a look and see what you think.
Ciao!
Posted in Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged inspirational, success, video on November 2, 2013| Leave a Comment »
This is an interesting video I saw on flickspire.
Take a look and see what you think.
Ciao!
Posted in Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged All Hallows Eve, All Saints Day, Halloween on October 31, 2013| 2 Comments »
Halloween, a night of ghosts and goblins, trick or treat, and harvest decorations. Is it religious or secular? Where did it actually originate?
Why do we celebrate it?
Let’s take a look at history.
Halloween is considered by many to be a secular holiday rather than a religious one. According to some, Halloween harkens back to the Celtic festival of Samhain. Samhain was an ancient Celtic and Druidic celebration of the New Year, which began on November 1. It was in part a harvest festival. They believed that during the night between the new and old year, the boundaries between the worlds of the living and of the dead blurred or weakened allowing the dead to return and cause trouble. It was also a time when the priests could more accurately foretell the future. http://www.history.com/topics/halloween
To commemorate this time, they built huge bonfires, which were considered sacred, and burned sacrifices of crops and animals to their gods. It also kept evil spirits away.
Later, after Rome had conquered the British Isles, they brought with them two ideas—Feralia, or a day commemorating the dead, and a day in honor of Pomona, the goddess of fruits and trees. Her symbol was the apple, which some say is the origin of our “bobbing for apples”. http://www.albany.edu/~dp1252/isp523/halloween.html
When Christianity came to Ireland and Britain, it brought the observance of All Souls Day. This was a day to celebrate the martyrdom of all saints, known and unknown. Originally celebrated in the spring, around Easter, it was moved to November 1 by Pope Gregory III (731-741). The day was called All Saints Day and was ordered to be celebrated by Pope Gregory IV. Moving the Catholic celebration of All Saints Day to November 1 replaced the pagan harvest festival with a catholic observance.
The vigil, or eve, of All Saints Day is the evening before, on the evening of October 31. It is commonly known as All Hallow’s Eve, or Halloween. All Saints Day honors all the martyrs and has been extended to include all saints in heaven. It is celebrated by the Catholic church by going to mass and asking for their prayers on behalf of those still on earth. http://catholicism.about.com/od/holydaysandholidays/p/All_Saints_Day.htm
The next day, November 2 is All Souls Day and is a time to pray for those souls still in purgatory. Families tend graves on this day and some cook special dinners in observance of the Feast of All Souls. http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/overviews/months/10_2.cfm
Where did our traditions come from? Trick or treating may have come over from Britain from the practice of souling. In souling, people would go door to door offering to say prayers for the dead in exchange for treats—usually soul cakes baked for the occasion.
http://urbanlegends.about.com/od/halloween/a/History-Of-Halloween.htm
Bobbing for apples may also have come from a divination game played in Britain. Apples were placed in a tub of water and the participants tried to catch one in their mouth. Once caught, the apple was carefully peeled and the peel was used to find the initial of one’s true love. http://urbanlegends.about.com/od/halloween/a/Bobbing-For-Apples-On-Halloween.htm
Should Christians celebrate Halloween? That depends on who you ask. Many fundamental churches feel the pagan roots of the celebration make it a celebration of evil or demonic things. The Catholic church believes their celebration predates the Celtic practices and that All Saints Day is important enough to be considered a Holy Day of Observation. Of course observing the day by going to mass is quite different from going out trick or treating.
http://catholicism.about.com/od/holydaysandholidays/f/All_Saints_Holy.htm
So, is Halloween a remnant of a pagan harvest festival? An ancient Druidic celebration on a night when the veil between the worlds is weakened and the dead return?
Or is it a day to go to mass and remember the saints and those departed?
Evil or Christian?
You decide.
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Posted in Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged Friday 13, mellie miller, superstition, yahoo contributor on October 2, 2013| 1 Comment »
How do you feel about Friday the 13th? Why do so many people consider it unlucky?
Read about it here!
http://voices.yahoo.com/friday-13th-why-we-consider-unlucky-12322436.html
Posted in Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged dieting, health, John Gabriel, mellie miller, Shape Your Reality, Weight loss on August 20, 2013| Leave a Comment »
If you are, go over and check out by blog, Shape Your Reality. You’ll find news on weight loss, musings on life and happiness, and thoughts on energy healing and alternative modalities.
http://shapeyourreality.wordpress.com/
Here’s the link to my new article on Weight Loss:
Go over and check it out. Tell me what you think.
Posted in Fiction books, Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged Gambler's Folly Mellie Miller, Mellie E. Miller, weight-bearing exercise, writing, Yahoo articles on August 20, 2013| Leave a Comment »
Don’t forget to check for my articles on Yahoo. My latest article is on weight-bearing exercise. You can go look at it here:
And don’t forget to go and get your copy of Gambler’s Folly!
http://www.bookstrand.com/gamblers-folly
For now it is available as an e-book only. As soon as it’s in print, I’ll let you know right here.
In the meantime, go over to Yahoo and see what I’m doing there. Here’s the link to some more of my musings.
http://voices.yahoo.com/musings-druids-12267989.html?cat=60
Ciao for now, amici,
a tardi…
Posted in Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged abaya, climate, Clothing, Gambler's Folly, hijab, islamic clothing, mellie miller, mosqitoes, musings on August 5, 2013| 1 Comment »
I like to look at what people wear around the world, now as well as in ancient times, and try to figure out why they dress the way they do. Why did the people of Europe wear things with so many layers and such long sleeves? Why did the druids wear long robes and carry staffs?
This article isn’t trying to make a religious statement. It simply takes note of some things I’ve discovered in my travels and musings. So sit back, grab a cuppa and muse with me.
There is a lot of talk these days about what the women of Islam wear, the abaya and hijab, or headscarf. Since I’ve visited the middle east, including Saudi Arabia, I feel I may have a hint of understanding some may not.
In Saudi Arabia, by law women must wear an abaya in public. This is a long robe-like garment of fairly thin material which covers a person from the shoulders to the ground. Most women choose to wear the hijab also.
When I visited Saudi Arabia, my husband was working there. I did not have to go. I chose to go. And in so choosing, I accepted the law regarding dress while I was there. I saw no point in being angry or bitter.
I learned a few things about the Middle East and the climate there. I discovered dust storms, which while similar to the sand storms in the American deserts in the southwest, differ in consistency. Sand has fairly large particles. It hurts when it is driven into your skin.
The dust in Saudi Arabia and the UAE is very fine. Imagine your bathroom when you’re fresh out of the shower. Think about the humidity in the air. Now imagine puffing talcum powder up into the damp air. Walk through this cloud of powder and let it settle on your hair and clothing.
This is the Middle Eastern dust storm. The abaya keeps this gunk off your clothes, the headscarf keeps it out of your hair.
Just for fun, I tried the niqab, or veil. The one I bought was the three layer veil. The outermost layer can be tossed back over your head so the eyes are seen through a slit in the fabric. Worn down, the eyes are not visible, but you can see through it. The fabric is very thin.
I found it worked wonderfully as a change from sunglasses. I could see just fine and my face stayed clean as well.
I haven’t yet determined whether the clothing–at least the style of clothing–or the religion came first. I do know that it works remarkably well in the climatic conditions of the area.
Isn’t it too warm? Yes, unless there is a breeze. With a little bit of air movement, it helps keep you cool.
But also look back at the people of Ireland and Scotland in ancient times, before mosquito repellent. They tended to wear clothing that covered most of their bodies, too. Long full sleeves, long skirts, and capes were the thing then. Look at the ancient druids, with their flowing robes. Maybe it wasn’t all for show.
Back here in the states, I live in the southeast. This summer has been a banner year for mosquitoes. Since I’m developing a sensitivity to insect repellent, I have to do something different to prevent bites. So when I walk over to our daughter’s house up the street, I slide on the abaya from Saudi Arabia.
The long sleeves protect my arms from mosquitoes and biting flies. The collar protects my neck and throat. And the hem creates enough of a breeze to keep the little buggers off my ankles as well.
I normally carry a jo staff or dead tree branch along to sweep the area ahead of me for spider webs. There’s nothing like a face full of web to liven your day.
So whether our ancestors lived in the middle eastern deserts or the British forests, perhaps their fashion was dictated by the climate and the indigenous wildlife of the area.
Mind you, I’m not making a religious statement here. I am not Muslim, nor do I intend to convert. I will, however, wear an outer covering if I should visit the Middle East in the future. And I’ll wear a scarf. There is a limit as to how often I want to wash my hair.
And the druids? They lived in the woods, like I do. I think they had mosquitoes and spiders–hence the robes and staffs. Oh yes, they did have some strange religious rites, too.
But like I said, one good face full of web…
Think about it.
While you ponder this, go take a look at my new novel, Gambler’s Folly.
http://www.bookstrand.com/mellie-e-miller
Ciao!
Posted in Non-fiction books, Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged book, breast cancer survivor, cancer, health, non-fiction, women's health on December 28, 2012| 3 Comments »
Being diagnosed with breast cancer is really frightening. The fear can overcome some patients to the point where they just can’t fight. I know. I am a survivor, and I saw people come in for treatments every three weeks. Some had kept their sense of humor, some had fallen into despair.
When I first went in for my chemo, a total stranger came up to me and told me I’d be fine. He put it all down to attitude. Those who stayed positive, fought back and moved forward won the fight. Those who let the disease get them down, depressed, simply didn’t respond.
Another man I met during my recovery was a fellow martial artist, also recovering from cancer. He was researching why black belt level martial artists had a much easier time with their treatment as opposed to untrained patients. He found there was only one area which overlapped for all of us.
Recently, I decided to share the story of my fight. One of the things which I found the most unsettling, was not knowing what to expect. I hadn’t talked with anyone who’d been through what I was facing. What had helped them deal with the effects of the surgeries, chemo and radiation?
Cancer and the Warrior’s Way is now available at CreateSpace, soon coming to Amazon and Amazon Kindle.
If you are facing breast cancer, or know someone who is, get your copy and follow my journey from beginning martial artists to survivor.
Cancer and the Warrior’s Way is now available from CreateSpace.
https://www.createspace.com/4107360
Posted in Fiction books, Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged animals, death of a pet, furry friend, goodbye, in memory, love, nature, pets, remembrance, RIP on December 1, 2012| 1 Comment »
Today has been a bit traumatic. For 13 years we’ve had a dear, sweet furry friend in our house. He wasn’t too big, maybe a little overweight, but at 14 pounds he wasn’t so large physically. His personality filled our world, but today he is gone.
We first met him when he appeared on our front porch, pawing through the trash for something to eat. He was so cute, we decided to give him a home with us. As a youngster he was clumsy, falling off of everything, including the top of the refrigerator. But his heart was always warm and loving. He was kind and generous with his love, with gray tabby fur which, in certain light, had a greenish tint to it. His jowly face and long fangs lent him a slightly comic air which went well with his personality.
As he grew, so did his love for us and ours for him. Though he got bigger, his voice did not. Hence the name Squeak, which was the only sound he ever made, except for his big happy purr. He got along well with all the other members of the household and made himself right at home. He had his own bed, his own rug–a round, shaggy, blue one–and his own food bowl. Of them all, the blue rug was the one thing he did not share. What he would have done without it, I don’t know. It was a bed, a toy, a security blanket all wrapped in one. It had been repaired and patched so many times it was nearly ready for the trash. But because he loved it so much, I always mended it one more time.
Squeak made a lot of friends in his life. Our grandsons adored him and the doctors and staff of the Commerce Veterinary Hospital have loved and cared for him during most of his life. Whenever I had to be away, he boarded there with his friends. We thank them for their kindness and generosity toward him and for the sympathy they have expressed on his passing. I know they will miss him nearly as much as we do.
It’s hard to say why our pets have such a profound effect on our lives. Is it simply the amount of time we have with them before they pass on? Is it their presence throughout our days which gives us comfort when we’re down? Maybe it’s all their little quirks which make us laugh or the way they always sleep on that one corner of the bed. Perhaps it’s their willingness to sit with us when we’re ill and need comfort.
Squeak had all those attributes and more. He slept with me when I was recovering from chemotherapy. His needs, even though they were just food and water, forced me to make my way at least as far as the kitchen each day. And since I was there already, I would get a glass of water and maybe a snack to keep me going. When my husband was gone for business, I at least had my big furry friend to keep me company, with a personality as big as the whole outdoors.
I will miss my friend Squeak, with all his little foibles. I know that wherever he is, he is finished with the pain and discomfort he’s felt while fighting the infection that finally took his life. Knowing this, however, doesn’t fill the hole in my heart or dry my tears. It doesn’t keep my husband from looking over to where Squeak always slept, expecting to see him there. It won’t help the sense of loss we’ll feel as we dig his grave and bury him beside other friends who passed over before him.
Is it silly to get so attached to a pet? Some will say, yes. And there are times, like tonight, when I wish I could stay aloof in my humanity and not give those ‘lesser beings’ such a place in my heart. But I can’t. They, in their very own way, share their heart and world with me. How can I do less?
Tonight we say goodbye to an old and dear friend, Squeak. Wherever you are, you big sweet love, take care and have fun. And remember, catnip makes you silly, so use in moderation.
A piu tardi, amico mio.
Posted in Reflections, Uncategorized, tagged give thanks, reflect, reflection, reflections, thanks, Thanksgiving on November 21, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Thanksgiving, a day for thanks and reflection, was always our family’s big day to get together and catch up on all the news from those we hadn’t had time to visit during the year. It was our time to get together with cousins from around the state and talk about school and friends, what we were reading or sports we played. Our aunts and uncles remarked on how grown up everyone was since last year. Just a day to relax and touch base with the rest of the tribe, so to speak, and reflect on all those things which allowed us the time to come together once again.
After everyone has gone back to their homes, we reflected on those things we have in common, as well as those differences which keep us interesting to each other. We also think about the triumphs and trials of those in our little circle and celebrate those things for which we give thanks. For those who have triumphed, we are thankful for their success. For those who are struggling, we send our encouragement and prayers to help them with their journey.
How much of this has been forgotten in our fast track world of today? I’ve heard very little this year about Thanksgiving and what it means. But I’ve heard a lot about Black Friday and all the shopping everyone has to do. I’ve seen all the Christmas decorations and gift items for sale all over town since Halloween. There’s Christmas music playing in all the stores.
Yes, we all seem eager to get to the shops so we can run each other down to get the last item on our Christmas list, just a day after we should have been giving thanks for what we already have. Can’t we spend this one day showing our gratitude for what we already have before we go to buy even more?
We need to take the time for reflection, to meditate on what we’ve accomplished throughout the year. What do we have for which we should give thanks? A lot of people have lost jobs, taken pay cuts or had companies go out of business. But as one of my favorite childhood heroes, John Carter of Mars said, “We still live!” And according to Cicero, “While there’s life, there’s hope.”
I’m a breast cancer survivor and one of the sayings that kept me going was, “Never give up; never surrender.” It may be from a corny movie, Galaxy Quest, but it was one of my anchors in the chemotherapy sea which was trying to drown me. Another anchor, less elegant than the first was, “Don’t let the bastard win.” And everyday I gave thanks for waking up alive one more time.
So for those of you who have those things you need, give thanks for them and reflect on what made them possible for you and yours. And those of you who are struggling, reflect on the path which led you in this direction and look for a turning point. Reflect on your choices and ask for guidance. Give thanks for life, friends, family, whatever you have that is good.
What am I reflecting on? My husband will be home for Thanksgiving this year. We can share our reflections with our daughter and three of our grandsons, along with dinner and a smorgasbord of desserts. I am thankful for good health, a home and dear, dear friends who brighten my darker days.
And I am reflecting on life itself. The miracle of life which I can still enjoy.
Thanksgiving is a time for reflection. Take a look in the mirror, your reflection in the water of a nice clear lake, the mirror of your mind, even a crystal ball. Whatever you use, take the time to take stock of this year, where you started, how far you’ve come and what path you see for your future.
And give thanks.
Piu tardi amici
Posted in Fiction books, Reflections, tagged cat, Fiction, Gambler's Folly, Kindle books, mellie miller, novel, reflections, story, winter, writing on November 15, 2012| Leave a Comment »
With winter really beginning to show, it’s easier to come into the office and sit down to write for a while. Gambler’s Folly is coming along nicely, as is the non-fiction story of my fight with breast cancer. My cat likes to come in and supervise from my husband’s chair. At least that’s what I think he’s trying to do, though he usually looks like he’s asleep. Just now he’s having a few problems with infected toes, so once he’s in the chair he’s down for the count.
We talk over story ideas, like how to get my hero out of the predicament he’s managed at this point. The cat listens intently, shrugs his shoulders and yawns. I don’t think he’s really into this story at all. Or maybe he’s hinting that I’m smart enough to figure it out on my own. I mean, really, if you’re asking the cat, there is an issue greater than the story.
I’m sure it will all work out in the end. Gambler’s Folly will be finished soon and into the real work–making my ramblings into something resembling a crafted tale. The cat’s toes will be better after he finishes his antibiotics and he’ll be able to get in and out of the chair himself.
And I feel certain that, after he feels better, he’ll really like Gambler’s Folly and be willing to put just a little more effort into it for me, give it just that little twist of magic it needs from my favorite feline. So I’ll talk to all of you later. Time to get the cat and get to work.
A piu tardi amici…..